How come being retired is not the restful time I thought it would be? Seems like I've filled the days with activities and then just become a couch potato after seven at night. I have decided to say no to some things - those I really don't care whether I do or not and even some I really don't like. (Like my Red Hat group - filled with half people I don't like (shame on me) and half that I do like but I get to see other places. Time is too short to stay with them so January I'm no longer going to go to lunches with them. So there!!!! Boy, does that sound awful!